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We met in 2023 and have been making memories ever since. Traveling to new places, staying active, and spending time with family and friends. We’re happiest just doing life together and, every now and then, celebrating it the best way we know how: crab leg night.

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Heidi is Hilary’s oldest sister, married to Frank Lietke and proud mom to Luke, Rosie, and Madison. She’s been a steady presence in Hilary’s life, celebrating milestones, offering wise advice, and sharing plenty of laughter, making her role in the wedding especially meaningful.

Heidi Lietke

Joanna is Hilary’s younger sister, devoted wife to Jonny, and proud mom Sloane, Alexis, and Cooper. With the biggest heart and endless compassion, she is the kind of person who is always there when you need her most. Through every stage of life, she has been Hilary’s built-in best friend, biggest cheerleader, and favorite partner in crime. More than sisters, they are lifelong friends, and Hilary is incredibly grateful to have Joanna by her side on this special day.

Joanna Clark

Avery is Austin’s niece, and the two have been buddies since the day she was born. It’s been incredible to watch her grow into an intelligent, kind young woman—and to see her develop such a great friendship with Hilary. A devoted fan of her dad, Mark, Avery can often be found tagging along to summer country concerts, making memories along the way.

Avery Jessup

Rosie is the sweetest 10-year-old with a heart far bigger than herself.  Younger sister to Luke and the proud big sister to Madison, she’s always the first to lend a helping hand, and making sure everyone around her feels loved and cared for. She’s always doting on her younger cousins and has a nurturing spirit that’s well beyond her years. Whether she’s following in Caitlin Clark’s Nike footsteps on the basketball court or whipping up something delicious in the kitchen, Rosie brings kindness, determination, and joy to everything she does. We’re so lucky to have her as part of our special day!

Rose Lietke

Madison is our sweet and spirited 8-year-old who brings joy everywhere she goes. An incredible athlete with a natural grace, she shines just as brightly on the playing field as she does on the ballet stage. As Hilary’s beloved goddaughter, Madison holds an especially special place in her heart, and the two share a love for all things makeup, fashion, and finding any excuse to have fun together. With her kind heart, infectious smile, and adventurous spirit, Madison has a way of making everyone around her feel happy. Whether she’s twirling in ballet slippers, competing in sports, or spending time with the people she loves most, she fills every moment with warmth, laughter, and endless love. We couldn’t imagine celebrating our wedding day without her by our side.

Madison Lietke

Harper is Austin’s niece and the flower girl—and while she may be the youngest, she’s definitely the boss of the family. It’s been so fun for Austin to watch her grow up, and he sees a lot of his own personality in her, which makes their bond even more special

Harper Jessup

At almost 6 years old, Sloane Clark is Hilary’s Goddaughter and Niece. Sloane is proof that sunshine can come in human form. Sweet, thoughtful, and always ready with the biggest smile, she has a way of making everyone around her feel special and lighting up every room with her joyful spirit. We are so excited to have her as one of our precious flower girls and couldn’t imagine our day without her walking down the aisle.

Sloane Clark

Alexis Clark is Hilary’s niece and fearless 3-year-old flower girl with a personality far bigger than she is. This adorable little firecracker keeps everyone on their toes with her spunky spirit and endless energy. She’s a wonderful sister and brings so much joy and love to our family.

Alexis Clark

Darrin is Austin’s brother-in-law by his sister, Lyndsey and a longtime, steady influence in his life ever since they met when Austin was 11. Known for being a consistent voice of reason, Darrin has always been someone Austin looks up to. He recently retired from East Surry High School, where he spent many years as a teacher and coach, and is now settling into a well-earned life of leisure

Darrin Haywood

Mark is Austin’s older brother and the middle of three children. He lives in Pinehurst with his wife, Erin, and their three kids—Avery, Hunter, and Harper. A steady, dependable presence throughout Austin’s life, Mark has always been someone he can count on. When he’s not spending time with family, you’ll likely find him coaching baseball or enjoying a summer country concert.

Mark Jessup

Jacob is Austin’s nephew, a groomsman, and the closest thing he had to a younger brother growing up. He is a dual-degree graduate from NC State University, earning degrees in Mechanical Engineering and History. Up next, Jacob will be joining the U.S. Navy as a Surface Warfare Officer, beginning an exciting new chapter of service and leadership.

Jacob Haywood

Troy is Austin’s nephew and a proud groomsman. He’s currently a student at NC State studying Materials Science and Engineering, with graduation quickly approaching. An Eagle Scout with a love for the outdoors. Troy also enjoys building with Legos and diving into board  games in his downtime

Troy Haywood

Hunter is Austin’s nephew and a groomsman, currently an upperclassman at Union Pines High School. He’s a familiar face on the basepaths, as baseball has always been a passion in the Jessup family. It’s been especially exciting for Austin to watch Hunter’s love for the game continue to grow over the years

Hunter Jessup

Luke Lietke is Hilary’s godson and very first nephew.  Luke has been stealing hearts since day one. Now entering his first year of middle school, he’s grown into an incredibly kind, smart, and respectful young man. Whether he’s dominating on the field as an all-star athlete or making everyone around him proud with his big heart. We’re excited to have him celebrate this special day with us!

Luke Lietke

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